Always be searching for new ways to show your spouse how much you love him, appreciate him and care for him.ĭon’t ever stop working on your marriage. I could spend hours with each of these girls, telling them all the things that I’ve learned and giving all sorts of marriage advice, but I don’t think it would be helpful for either of them to hear me rattle off all the little things I’ve learned thus far in my marriage.Įach marriage is unique and beautiful in it’s own way. I have figured out the best times to talk about certain issues and when I should just keep things to myself.
#Funny words of wisdom for newlyweds how to
I’ve learned what his pet peeves are and how to avoid them. I know how to make him feel appreciated and loved. I know most of my husbands likes/dislikes. So what advice could be offered? There is so much that I have learned over the past 4 years, and I’m still learning!
So, I know that many words of advice will be long forgotten by the time their wisdom is needed. Newlyweds often scoff at the idea of going to bed angry because they feel they will never really be angry at each other. A new bride doesn’t think she will ever take her hubby for granted. These are all good and useful tips, but from a newlywed’s perspective, they seem unnecesary. “don’t go to bed angry” (or do go to bed angry, depending on who you ask!).In all the excitement of the upcoming weddings I have been reflecting a lot on my 4 years (and counting) of marriage as I try to decide just what advice / words of wisdom I could offer them before their big days. I am so thrilled for each of them as they begin this new stage of life. One will be wed in just a few days and the other this summer. Two of my closest friends are getting married this year. After thinking about it for a long time, I finally came up with my best advice for the new bride. Often bridal showers will ask you to share a piece of advice for the bride but it can be hard to think of something in the moment. Hug like it’s your last.As they prepare for the wedding, it’s always good for friends to think of advice for the bride and groom on their big day. Those who love deeply never grow old they may die of old age, but they die young.As we grow older together, as we continue to change with age, there is one thing that will never change…I will always keep falling in love with you.A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.Old couples who are still in love are one of the cutest things in the world.As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. Love is like a friendship caught on fire.For the love’s highest intensity doesn’t necessarily mean its highest quality. It is love in old age, no longer blind, that is true love.Not that you are in love-now you are love. (Osho) By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of being. Falling in love you remain a child rising in love you mature.I love it when I see old couples together because it makes me believe that true love does exist.Relish love in your old age! Aged love is like aged wine it becomes more satisfying, more refreshing, more valuable, more appreciated and more intoxicating! (Leo Buscaglia).
It’s a choice you make-not just on your wedding day, but over and over again-and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.
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